恋爱条约

恋爱条约

女方给男方

大家要记住咯。
第一，每次吵架，生气不能超过一天，就是说要在当天睡觉前好回。
第二，不管什么事，吵架也好还是很累要先睡觉，都要在睡觉前说晚安。
第三，不管吵架吵得多么不爽，都不可以骂粗言脏话。


你同意吗？

男方给女方

第一，每天最少要有讯息。
第二，要照顾身体别忙到不会休息。
第三，不能欺骗对方和隐瞒任何事情。



你同意吗？

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之前有一个傻瓜开的恋爱条约，只希望这感情可以好好的持续下去。。
看得出她是多麽希望大家都能好好的。
现在的她已经没做这样的事了，也不会在为这感情再定下任何条件了，可能她已经忘了珍惜吧？但是现在不知道还生效吗？

Since when

Since when her temper has gone bad
Since when she can be mad at little things
Since when she have started to maximize every single flaws of her
Since when......

I don't know what has happened to her
Guess this is one of the stages in a relationship

she used to be a girlfriend like an obedient kitten
who have less temper, who have so considerate
who can say yes to me in everything

Probably she have changed.......

we establish our relationship using half year time...is hard...the day u gonna leave is getting nearer but recently we have many arguments....

Sometime too much arguments  will make relationships turn bad 
It will getting more worst if  never get a conclusion or solution and just keep quite act like nothing happen...it makes people feel miserable, not forgetting the tears that flow and the anger within after each argument.

no matter how hard we try to avoid having arguments,
sometimes arguments just come without us noticing.
i hate the moment of cold war after every argument.
supposedly we were sweet couple before but now the conversation between us become lesser and lesser
we both turn very passively and always ignoring each other.
you will never post anything anymore or tagging me on FB.
sometime i have  intention to post something for you but when every time i want to do so,i need to think twice because you always concern about other people will notice that and sometime i fail to tag you and  it demotivate  me . 

we both know that blog is very important for our relationship .because it is the bridge between you and me.
If you still remember Blog is a factor that be start our relationship.
we have same characteristic we will hardly express our feeling to other. 
I know how important is the blog is to you and me so no matter how busy i am ,i will still spend time to update it,but recently your blog is cover with dust ...previously i really enjoy reading your blog and know what you are thinking but now reading your blog is like memory.
you tell me that after you work in Singapore you still update your blog ,but now i think every thing changes...

when i ask this question ..It is my feeling become not important to you anymore?
your answer that you give me is still important but your ignoring action show me other meaning.   
The fight it continue when nobody wants to back down, nothing is solved.

After the fight i will feel regret i should't talk to you like that 
 i wish i never uttered those words that may had hurt you 
it was never intentional
because you are my babey
i wish you will be the understanding one
understanding what i've been through
know my loneliness ,stress and depresses

and encourage me.....

Sometime i know that  you're angry and i'm angry too
but what's the point of getting mad with each other?
we'll only get more miserable day by day
i dont know how to solve this
i wish we never had this argument
i promised myself never to have any argument with you
but i failed to keep my promise

sorry, i never mean to hurt you
i treasure you more than anything else
and to see you hurt is the last thing i would wanna do
can we just forget the past and move on?

anger and tears are temporary
while the good times are forever in my heart.
let us just appreciate the last few days before we embark on our dreams
no more arguments, just laughter.


i believe in rainbow after the rain

还是说了

曾经追逐的梦都碎了，从头到尾都没说过不适合。她说了出口证明·她没有遗憾也不在珍惜了。现在想起她。她爱小抱抱，喜欢赖床；她很爱玩，喜欢捣蛋。她在陌生人面前会很安静，很冷漠。她也会偶尔的忧郁， 问她怎么了，她也只会说没事，其实她只是感觉累了，她只是需要一个拥抱。她也许不够温柔，不够可爱，可是她在你面前的样子是真实的，她爱你。

她再次的丢下他，这一次不是他开口是她开口说了。她自己也清楚知道那两个字不能随便说出口。他还认识他，不过不想再见到她，她过的好，他不会祝福她，她过的不好，他不会嘲笑她。因为他们从此陌生。他的世界不再有她，她的世界不再有他。他不能再珍惜她，抱歉，他失去的，也是她失去的。

没有方向

爱情最高境界对我来说，就是惯再旁边抱不到你而睡不着觉，这就是爱.当一个男人习惯了一个女人的任性、撒娇，顽皮，甚至无理取闹，这就是爱。一个人会为另一个人去改变、迁就，这就是爱。对爱人，迁就多少,就爱了多少。

之前担心过距离的问题但是可能是因为在我们的感情最好的时候，当时我们谁都没有想到距离会是这么严肃的一个问题。有人说距离只是分手的一种借口，我却觉得有些事情的确是因为距离而改变了。最近吵架感觉上你开始会抱怨会觉得我说出我的缺点到最后还说到情侣的大忌就是“分手”。当你说分手感觉就是在威胁我不要在走下去。我只希望你和我好，互不猜忌，你和我说话就像对自己说话一样，我和你说话也像对自己说话一样。有时候很没有心情很低落时想向你诉苦结果到最后都是吵架收场。最近很不开心觉得虽然是自己的女朋友，但是面子书一张情侣照都没有反而他的过去的照片就很多，有时在问你是属于我的吗？每天开面子书看到身边的朋友和情侣的照片，真的很羡慕。我根本不能开我的女朋友的profile给别人看因为我怕人家问我为什么没有合照？为什么她跟别个男人的合照？我已经不想解释我真的很想马上就走开不想呆在那个地方。她没有没考虑过我的感受。我的出现会让你不懂怎样面对你的家人怕失去朋友？

我很忙，为什么忙因为很多东西做。忙得原因只为了要顺利毕业而努力，但是如果我在努力的途中失经去了你，那我努力除了为了自己之外还有为了什么而努力？但是有时候忙到没时间陪你，讯息也变短了变得没有标点符号。我做东西喜欢专，不能以心二用，想着东西的一半快快看了讯息就回你因为怕忘记刚刚想到的东西。每当疲惫的时候，就想停下脚步，遥想追逐的远方，恢复力量再上路。每当有困难的时候，就停想停下脚步，整理纷乱的思维，驱走迷茫再上路。每当心痛的时候，就想停下脚步，抚摸流着血的伤口，擦干眼泪再上路。每当放弃的时候，就想停下脚步，作出遗憾的舍得，振奋精神再上路。

距离、时间、亲情，有多少感情因为距离的遥远，慢慢变淡。有多少感情，因为时间的遥远，慢慢遗忘。有多少感情，因为亲情的渴望，慢慢消失。是你的，就是你的。越是紧握，越容易失去。我们努力了，珍惜了，问心无愧。其他的，听天由命。那天你让我明白了一件事，改变了我的想法和信念，就是你让我知道就算你多么的爱我只要不开心你也会向我提出分手。如果不想走下去，如果在一起会那么辛苦，如果分开你会开心点，请你老实告诉我好吗？

                                                       

                                           

                       

希望，种花，生活，甜品。。。

说不听的你。。

Dear：

我们在一起已经有几个月了，不知不觉我们在一起这么久。。。和你在一起这段时间日子还过的蛮愉快的。虽然偶尔有意见不合，有时还为了小事吵架，但是我越来越了解你的性格了。。我最喜欢看你笑但是不是伪装的笑因为不自然不好看。当我和你开玩笑，看到你的笑我也开心因为我知道你开心。。。

有时候希望你不要太过悲观，思想太过负面，因为这会错过很多东西，因为你顾着想负面的东西担心些还未发生的东西而且也不知道你所想的·是不是真的会发。。如果你的运气真的那么好你想的负面的东西既然发生了？那总算你担心的有价值，不是你白担心。但万一你担心的东西没发生呢？？那你不是很不值得和白担心一场了吗？？你这样就错过了原本应开可以开心的日子，可是就因为你担心一些没有发生的东西变得不开心，影响你的心情，让你担心，难过，压力，晚上睡觉不安甚至发恶梦。。为什么那么怕？什么事发生都一定又解决方式的。。发生什么事就是面对它，解决它，放下它。。。对已没发生的事去担心它有什么用？？没有人能够决绝没有发生的事情哦？？除非发生了才有东西解决不是吗。。。要发生的迟早都会发生，不会发生就不会发生的啦。。到不如你先把自己的思想心情变得乐观点就算发生什么事也能乐观的面对。

其实不开心时就多想想自己其实已经是很幸福了，亲情，友情，爱情都围绕着你，有什么理由还不开心呢？在不是就想想那些回忆，比如说第一次接吻，牵手还有许许多多的第一次。。

有时候起你为我做过的事，都会开心起来。为了你我也愿意做出让步，迁就你，不向你乱发脾气。。。

遇上你是我的缘分，爱上你是我的幸福，伤了你会是我的过错。。。

喜欢看你笑，
喜欢看你闹，
喜欢看你顽皮，
喜欢你的拥抱，
喜欢你为我着想，
喜欢你给的温柔，
喜欢你傻傻的样子，
喜欢你默默的担心，
真的喜欢你。。

Running out of time...

Dear ,u must be extremely tired....You fall a sleep again in the middle of replying my msg but i will never angry with you ,i just want to to have a good rest ,you can reply my msg tomorrow.. I wish  i can stay beside you right now ,watching your sleeping face and cuddles you in my embrace..

Dear, i want to say thank you for everything u did and you never give up on me at the critical time...i feel lucky to having you as my girlfriend ....the previous semester I face many difficulty and there was many obstacle many problem i have to solve....At the end i success to overcome it... ..is you the one who always comfort me when i'm down,encourage me when i was week .sometime  i had did something wrong or feel so sad u will never question me and blaming me  ...you just stay by my side and hug me with you tenderness..No one can understand me so badly , except you....

Actually dear i have two contrast emotion  within me this few day...i feel moody but at the same time i feel happy too.The thing that make me moody is .....you going to leave Kampar soon, it was the starting of my nightmare,till now i still wondering whether i can face it or not?  what ever it is i have to face it like a men although i still a child in you heart that sometime make you feel worry.. you surely know what i mean right...All the people i know leave one by one ,this place will become unfamiliar to me like Zombie land... they have been with me for four years not merely as friends or companion but also a special bond that cannot be explain as we fight together since foundation with the aim to graduate.....however the thing that make me happy is finally you can graduate and most of my frend also...

This few day i had think allot, because when you are busy , u take longer time to reply my msg....i wondering will it be the same situation happens after u go to sg in future.....


I'm worry about if phone calls or Skype or whatever communication way that we are using now cannot pleases you as you wish to see me more ...at times I question God and ask Him why make us meet each other and separate us....He really put a test for me....

I'm worry when at the moments that I'm down and wish to find you to talk , but seeing you so tired after work....I think i will starting keep it to myself as I know you didn't good life after whole day working...and at times if I wish to cheer you with jokes and stories or excite you by telling you what special event that I have done.....all of those seem like can't stimulate you...


I'm worry that one day.....I seldom can guess what you're doing.......and 
The distance from Kampar to Sg wont change but 
The distance from your heart and my heart had already change...... 

Past Relationships

Previously i will never announce to the world about my relationship, because i think that this kind of stuff is better to keep it low profile,but for this time with my cute babe
I am officially told the world about our relationship.

I don't care and mind what people commented or talking bad thing about us.
Maybe some of then no even like us to be together.but for me is nothing to worry about.
Never explain yourself to anyone because the person who likes you doesn't need it...
Guess that we have all been there at some point in our lives.  : P

A new Relationship is a new starting point of the life.
Now whatever i do ,I need to take into consideration of my other part if not she will getting angry later haha.
In my point of view Relationship make you become a responsible person ,train u to take care of the other.

I guess most of us have experienced a failed relationship, and most of us have to always learn from mistake from the past experienced,because if u repeated the same mistake again and again ,the result will never differ from previous ,I ask about your EX,because i try to understand why you failed in previous relationship,and i try to not repeat what they do....

Sometime, I never blame any of my EX...We know that we already work hard and try our best ,give everything we got to maintain our relationship,but sometime it just wont work,then is the time to go on. They come into my life and taught me many thing. actually for me, Gal is a good Wikipedia...I keep it learn it and will not repeat the same thing.

Now, is turn for me to work hard for my girlfriend to get a better relationship. I care for my future and now. Spend life with who makes me happy, but not the person who have to impress.

Gal ... You are the one I looking for and you are my current... Lets work together for our relationship success.

It's perfect, and touches me deep
First thing in the morning, when I hear you speak
And last thing at night as you bid me sweet dreams
The brush of your lips lets me know what you mean

And all of the hours that pass through the day
Those spent together and when you're away
I think of you always, imagine your touch
Think how to show you, I love you so much

So when we're apart, and you long for me near
Just try to remember you're already here
For deep in my heart, where no one can see
You'll be forever, together we'll be.

 Dont't let past relationship ruin your future happiness ,scar remind us of where we've been,not where we're going....
Dont't bring past relationship into your future,because it will adding more scar in our heart....

“Look at life through the windshield; not the rear view mirror ‘

If we realize that there is no gain in thinking about the past relationships, then we will not spend our valuable time in thinking about unworthy people. “You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore’. So, let’s forget the past and tread into the future with positive thinking.

My birthday with Dear

因为考试所以很久都没写部落格了，但怕她以为我不写了所以写回去。今年的生日有点不同了因为多了一个人陪伴，那个人就是我亲爱的宝贝，很开心又她的陪伴，有了她好像人生突然有了颜色。真的很感谢她给了我一个特别的生日。宝贝真的很用心的为我安排我的生日。不管几忙都好她都忙着帮我庆祝，而我切在哪里发脾气叫他不要弄了来陪我。但是我忘了她在用心计划时最希望一切事情会跟着她的计划走，但我切在哪里发脾气，真不好意识哦贝。看到她东跑西跑忙着帮我准备生日的东西又一边忙着考试的东西真的有点心痛，担心她会累然后又病了。宝贝这个人是个傻瓜因为每次只会为别人想但却忘了为自己想，所以身为她男朋友的我也要多加为她想想才行。

当天，贝就好像来拐带人那样驾着她的那辆小红车来到我家就拿了我最爱吃的榴莲蛋糕给我，因为贝知道我最爱吃，而且他可能要我”榴莲“=”留念“当时的她。我拿回家放进冰箱里后就下楼了。到她的车旁边，贝真的有时很坏蛋已经坐去左边的车位，要求我驾车载她。她说喜欢被我载。宝贝那天穿到很特别，因为她穿了我送她的掉带衣，看起来很不错，我超喜欢的，但是因为宝贝身材太好了所以我限制她只能在跟我出去时才能穿，可怜的贝有那么大男人主义的男朋友，没得选咯谁叫我是她的男朋友。

我们就约好了在pizza hut 哪里庆祝，我和贝就坐楼上，order好了贝就拿我的礼物给我，很久都没收礼物了好开心，所以只要是是贝送的我都会喜欢，而且我也不希望她花太多钱在我的生日。贝很有心思的，她花了很多时间用纸折成心形然后慢慢的放进美丽玻璃瓶里而且还有照片在里面。还有贝写了一封信，信里面的内容只有我跟她懂罢了，但是贝在信里写了一些很感动的东西，看的出贝很用心付出，而且她很希望我们会长久的走下去会有未来毕竟感情得来不容易大家都克服了很多难题才到今天。当时好想对“贝说谢谢你”，我也是会为我们的未来努力，我们一起努力。

贝还送了一个很可爱的生日卡给我，里面有小卡通在弹钢琴。还有贝怕我们分开两地时会越来越少想对方，所以送了一个情侣杯一红色的和一个蓝色的。贝说她去SG后她也会带去，听到她那样说当时好难过，只是不懂要说什么，且又不想让她知道怕他担心。放心啦贝我喝水一定会想到你的。贝当天还拍了很多她很满意的照片。那天贝什么都听我的，我要这个我要那个她都尽量答应为了就是哄我开心。哈哈那么大了还有人哄也不错的。

吃饱后会到家，大家什么都不想，贝就陪我聊天，当时贝还在那里忙着帮我拍照真是辛苦她了。我们聊了好多。多希望当时有多啦A梦的时间停留工具，这样就能够让时间停留在那一刻。贝很担心走了丢下我一个人没人陪。我也好不舍得贝离开，但是我又希望她尽快顺利毕业。

 

 

     

                                      

谢谢你宝贝给了我一个美好的生日。。LOVE U

Long Distance Relationship

Long Distance Relationship is a big challenge and full of obstacle ahead . In fact, they’re really tough.We spend countless of hours just talking through a phone or through a screen. We can’t see the person when we want to or when we need them most.. We can’t hug, We can’t hold hands, We can’t kiss. We lose the intimacy in a physical sense. But then, Our relationship becomes based on each other and nothing else. We must learn to communicate, because a long-distance relationship without communication is nothing.

We learn to trust, because We can’t always see or know everything the person is doing.
We learn to sacrifice, because someone’s always going to lose a bit of sleep from the time difference.

And lastly, We learn to appreciate.
Normally we will never think of the effect when we still can meet each other ,so we take it for granted for the people and relationships in our lives because we think they’ll always be there and never leave ...

But When we only have a limited amount of time with a person,we learn to appreciate and cherish every single moment we have with them.When we finally see that person after weeks or months or year of seeing them only through a computer screen,It is one of the greatest feelings in the world.When we’ ve waited for something so long and we finally have it,we cherish it. The key to a long-distance relationship is faith.

I believe that if  both of us are not willing to give up, If both of us are willing to stand up and still try after every time one of us or both of us fall.

“Distance isn’t for the fearful, it’s for the people who want to be together so badly "

It’s for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for the little time with the one they love.

Sometime when we face problem and difficulty in life and feel want to let go and we will start to think something -ve especially for those people who have n -ve thought often ,so what can i say ?

I hope that  to those -ve people please view Long Distance Relationship from other of perspective (+ve) as bellow :

Long distance relationship is one of the best relationships. 

It's really sweet to see two patient hearts that are willing to wait because they think that everything is worth it anyway.

Yes although it's hard not being together

physically, you cannot hold each other's

hand, you cannot kiss and hug each other,

but still, you know that one day you WILL for sure!!!!

After you go to SG  for me i think 

My sweetest memory - UR msg!

My biggest sadness - The distance! 

My biggest hope - I will see you soon!

My strongest prayer - Our Relation continues forever..hehe

At that time my eyes is always jealous on my heart,

Do u know why?

Because u r so far from my eyes and

So close to my heart . . . .

From EDVAN dictionary the definition of Miss You

M : My Soul Needs You

I : Impossible to Live Without You

S : Scare Without You

S : Simply You are My Life

Y: You And Me Is The Same person

O: Of course I Love You

U : Unlimited Of Words Cant Describe How Much I Needs You… 

"Never Accept the definition of life from Others, "It is Your life,

define it by yourself. The way U love, The way You forgive."

"Because "No one knows about "YOU" better than "Yourself."

                                                         

                                              

    JACLYNN -------- ♥ -------- EDVAN 

Last word for U Jac my darling......

I don't need a perfect relationship, I just need someone who won't give up on me.♥

Couple in public

after receive complain from my girlfriend  that i stop writing blog ard , so i decide to write something about couple hehe...

Normally when couple on dates, generally they will hold each other hands and sit close to each other, right?  And yet -  they can't do anything more, because there are in the PUBLIC......

Sometime when i walk alone on the path ,taking public transport or subway (LRT),i like to observe other couple acting and their behavior . Enjoy the act of desiring each other, caress each other's arms during a movie, sit next to each other on one side of the table, kiss a bunch while on the subway platform, sit ridiculously close on the train, hold hands under the table.  This are the things that couple would have done during dating. When i saw other couple holding hand together  i will recall back  those thing that we had done before among this couple and it actually make me feel sweet...i really hope u can stay beside me....

a single movement carry a thousand meaning...because of love...

And may these gorgeous photos inspire you..