Sunday, April 7, 2013

Long Distance Relationship








Long Distance Relationship is a big challenge and full of obstacle ahead . In fact, they’re really tough.We spend countless of hours just talking through a phone or through a screen. We can’t see the person when we want to or when we need them most.. We can’t hug, We can’t hold hands, We can’t kiss. We lose the intimacy in a physical sense. But then, Our relationship becomes based on each other and nothing else. We must learn to communicate, because a long-distance relationship without communication is nothing.

We learn to trust, because We can’t always see or know everything the person is doing.

We learn to sacrifice, because someone’s always going to lose a bit of sleep from the time difference.

And lastly, We learn to appreciate.

Normally we will never think of the effect when we still can meet each other ,so we take it for granted for the people and relationships in our lives because we think they’ll always be there and never leave ...

But When we only have a limited amount of time with a person,we learn to appreciate and cherish every single moment we have with them.When we finally see that person after weeks or months or year of seeing them only through a computer screen,It is one of the greatest feelings in the world.When we’ ve waited for something so long and we finally have it,we cherish it. The key to a long-distance relationship is faith.


I believe that if  both of us are not willing to give up, If both of us are willing to stand up and still try after every time one of us or both of us fall.


“Distance isn’t for the fearful, it’s for the people who want to be together so badly "


It’s for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for the little time with the one they love.

Sometime when we face problem and difficulty in life and feel want to let go and we will start to think something -ve especially for those people who have n -ve thought often ,so what can i say ?

I hope that  to those -ve people please view Long Distance Relationship from other of perspective (+ve) as bellow :

Long distance relationship is one of the best relationships. 
It's really sweet to see two patient hearts that are willing to wait because they think that everything is worth it anyway.
Yes although it's hard not being together
physically, you cannot hold each other's
hand, you cannot kiss and hug each other,
but still, you know that one day you WILL for sure!!!!





After you go to SG  for me i think 

My sweetest memory - UR msg!
My biggest sadness - The distance! 
My biggest hope - I will see you soon!
My strongest prayer - Our Relation continues forever..hehe


At that time my eyes is always jealous on my heart,
Do u know why?
Because u r so far from my eyes and
So close to my heart . . . .



From EDVAN dictionary the definition of Miss You


M : My Soul Needs You
I : Impossible to Live Without You
S : Scare Without You
S : Simply You are My Life
Y: You And Me Is The Same person
O: Of course I Love You
U : Unlimited Of Words Cant Describe How Much I Needs You… 

"Never Accept the definition of life from Others, "It is Your life,
define it by yourself. The way U love, The way You forgive."
"Because "No one knows about "YOU" better than "Yourself."

                                                         
                                              
    JACLYNN -------- ♥ -------- EDVAN 




Last word for U Jac my darling......

I don't need a perfect relationship, I just need someone who won't give up on me.♥













Saturday, March 30, 2013

Couple in public

after receive complain from my girlfriend  that i stop writing blog ard , so i decide to write something about couple hehe...

Normally when couple on dates, generally they will hold each other hands and sit close to each other, right?  And yet -  they can't do anything more, because there are in the PUBLIC......


Sometime when i walk alone on the path ,taking public transport or subway (LRT),i like to observe other couple acting and their behavior . Enjoy the act of desiring each other, caress each other's arms during a movie, sit next to each other on one side of the table, kiss a bunch while on the subway platform, sit ridiculously close on the train, hold hands under the table.  This are the things that couple would have done during dating. When i saw other couple holding hand together  i will recall back  those thing that we had done before among this couple and it actually make me feel sweet...i really hope u can stay beside me....

a single movement carry a thousand meaning...because of love...


And may these gorgeous photos inspire you..






















Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Defend Of the Ancient


I has been addicted to play game since i was young it become a culture to those people that born in 1988 ,most of my friend same age with play the same game and watch the same movie... yet still dunno how to spend my free time except playing game... All though i have already reduce the number of the game in my facebook and didn't install any single online game on my lappie, even start holding a book before i slept(read few page only sleep adi)... but i just can't stop playing this strategic game name DotA,D.O.T.A stand for Defense of the Ancients... Is a game control a single unit(Hero) and push it to be stronger to fight against your enemy from destroying your homeland or you go and destroy their homeland (sound bored right). I have no idea why i so addicted into this game that spent most of time on my 17-23 age playing that game... imagine that when i start playing i can play the single game at least 9 hours per days.. Except sleeping, i was playing the freaking Dota for the whloe day (wtf). Which make me scolded by parent who not doing things suppose to be done and can u believe that i always fight with my ex becoz of this game... Feel sorry when i think back... Self Discipline is not there at all... No life at all by doing that... now when i think back,this game make me bored...but is a good sign of improvement... Sometimes Boring and dun have anything to replace my previous behavior... when no gf around, no game to play, no money to spend... what else can do... going back to old attitude lu...... but with a clearer mindset... If now i want to play I ONLY play Two ROUND PER time.....I promise with my finger closing hahah



Monday, February 11, 2013

喜欢


喜欢你的头发 喜欢你的脸颊
喜欢你微笑的时候眼里藏不住的光
喜欢你的害羞 喜欢你的疯狂
想要一天二十四个小时守在你身旁

喜欢开你玩笑 喜欢叫你傻瓜

喜欢吓你一跳的时候看你慌张的模样
喜欢搭你肩膀 喜欢你会怕痒
喜欢趁你没有防备偷袭你的手指甲

想要抱你一下 贴紧我的胸膛

想要告诉你这样下去不是办法
想要把你绑架 想要带你回家
想要非常认真严肃的承诺地老天荒

想要非常认真严肃的承诺地老天荒


思念你令我惊慌 想到你令我膨胀

你的每个笑容都会令我幸福的快爆炸
见你的时候我总是说些傻呼呼的蠢话
令我随时随地濒临疯狂

喜欢开你玩笑 喜欢叫你傻瓜

喜欢吓你一跳的时候看你慌张的模样
喜欢搭你肩膀 喜欢你会怕痒
喜欢趁你没有防备偷袭你的手指甲

想要抱你一下 贴紧我的胸膛

想要告诉你这样下去不是办法
想要把你绑架 想要带你回家
想要非常认真严肃的承诺地老天荒

思念你令我惊慌 想到你令我膨胀

你的每个笑容都会令我幸福的快爆炸
见你的时候我总是说些傻呼呼的蠢话
令我随时随地濒临疯狂

喜欢你的头发 喜欢你的脸颊

喜欢你微笑的时候眼里藏不住的光
喜欢你的害羞 喜欢你的疯狂
想要一天二十四个小时守在你身旁

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Once in my life


Only once in my life, I truly believe that i had already found someone who can completely change me and my personality..she is something different that i ever met before ..When i tell her things that I’ve never shared with another soul and guess what she will absorb everything I had said and actually she want to hear more.She will just lay down quietly like a small little child on my arm and listen to everything i said. I share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at me. When something wonderful happens, I can’t wait to tell her about it, knowing that she will share in my excitement. She will never  hurt my feelings even she does she will fell guilty...she will never make me feel like i'm not good enough, but rather they build me up and show me the things about myself that make me special . There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when she was around. I  can always be myself and not worry about what they will think of me because she love me for who I am. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or talk become invaluable treasures kept safe in my heart to cherish forever. Memories of my childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Color seem brighter and more brilliant.... Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent . A phone call  during the day helps to get me through a long day’s activities and always brings a smile on my face. In her presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but i find myself ’re quite comfort in just having her nearby. Things that never interested me before become fascinating because i know that it is important to this person who is so special to me. I will think of this person on every occasion and in everything i had done. Simple things bring her to mind like a light blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. I'm open my  heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, I'm experience a love and joy that i'm never dreamed possible. i'm find strength in knowing her as a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. She is hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.” 





The way....



The way they always smell good even if it's just  shampoo
The way they always find the right spot on our shoulder how cute they look when they sleep the ease in which they fit into our arms
The way they kiss you and make everything alright in the world how cute they are when they eat
The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end its all worth while
The way they are always warm even if its minus 30 degrees
The way they look good no matter what they wear
The way she reject the compliments even though you both know shes the most beautiful thing on this earth how cute they are when they argue
How their hand always seems to find ours
The way they smile
The way you feel when you see her name on the caller id after you've had a big fight
The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know an hour later...
The way they kiss you when you've done something nice for her
The way they kiss you when you say"i love you"
Actually.. just the way they kiss you
The way they fall into your arms when they cry
Then apologizing for crying over something that silly
The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
Then the way they apologize when it really does hurt (even though we dont admit it!)
The way they say "I miss you"
The way you miss them
The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it does not hurt her anymore...
We love them for a million reasons, no paper would do it justice. It is a thing not from a mind, but of the heart. A feeling. Only felt.........................

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

你很愛他




當你決定你要離開我
我沒有說什麼 就當作你自由

有好幾次我都想挽留 哭求也沒有用
就當作是寂寞

因為我能明白 他的溫柔對你是種解脫
就坦白告訴我 誰是你的最愛

其實你很愛他 對我的懲罰
說你沒有想他 是可憐我吧
我已沒有藉口 只能放手
不敢奢求 你說愛我


其實你很愛他 他很溫柔嗎
其實你很想他 就說出口吧
我已不想多說 摀住耳朵
不想再次聽到你說 你很愛他

其實你很愛他 對我的懲罰
說你沒有想他 是可憐我吧
我已沒有藉口 只能放手
不能奢求 你說愛我

其實你很愛他 他很溫柔嗎
其實你很想他 就說出口吧
我已不想多說 摀住耳朵
不想再次聽到你說 你很愛他 你很愛他 你很愛他