Sunday, April 7, 2013

Long Distance Relationship








Long Distance Relationship is a big challenge and full of obstacle ahead . In fact, they’re really tough.We spend countless of hours just talking through a phone or through a screen. We can’t see the person when we want to or when we need them most.. We can’t hug, We can’t hold hands, We can’t kiss. We lose the intimacy in a physical sense. But then, Our relationship becomes based on each other and nothing else. We must learn to communicate, because a long-distance relationship without communication is nothing.

We learn to trust, because We can’t always see or know everything the person is doing.

We learn to sacrifice, because someone’s always going to lose a bit of sleep from the time difference.

And lastly, We learn to appreciate.

Normally we will never think of the effect when we still can meet each other ,so we take it for granted for the people and relationships in our lives because we think they’ll always be there and never leave ...

But When we only have a limited amount of time with a person,we learn to appreciate and cherish every single moment we have with them.When we finally see that person after weeks or months or year of seeing them only through a computer screen,It is one of the greatest feelings in the world.When we’ ve waited for something so long and we finally have it,we cherish it. The key to a long-distance relationship is faith.


I believe that if  both of us are not willing to give up, If both of us are willing to stand up and still try after every time one of us or both of us fall.


“Distance isn’t for the fearful, it’s for the people who want to be together so badly "


It’s for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for the little time with the one they love.

Sometime when we face problem and difficulty in life and feel want to let go and we will start to think something -ve especially for those people who have n -ve thought often ,so what can i say ?

I hope that  to those -ve people please view Long Distance Relationship from other of perspective (+ve) as bellow :

Long distance relationship is one of the best relationships. 
It's really sweet to see two patient hearts that are willing to wait because they think that everything is worth it anyway.
Yes although it's hard not being together
physically, you cannot hold each other's
hand, you cannot kiss and hug each other,
but still, you know that one day you WILL for sure!!!!





After you go to SG  for me i think 

My sweetest memory - UR msg!
My biggest sadness - The distance! 
My biggest hope - I will see you soon!
My strongest prayer - Our Relation continues forever..hehe


At that time my eyes is always jealous on my heart,
Do u know why?
Because u r so far from my eyes and
So close to my heart . . . .



From EDVAN dictionary the definition of Miss You


M : My Soul Needs You
I : Impossible to Live Without You
S : Scare Without You
S : Simply You are My Life
Y: You And Me Is The Same person
O: Of course I Love You
U : Unlimited Of Words Cant Describe How Much I Needs You… 

"Never Accept the definition of life from Others, "It is Your life,
define it by yourself. The way U love, The way You forgive."
"Because "No one knows about "YOU" better than "Yourself."

                                                         
                                              
    JACLYNN -------- ♥ -------- EDVAN 




Last word for U Jac my darling......

I don't need a perfect relationship, I just need someone who won't give up on me.♥